House Sitting Etiquette — A Guide for Pet Parents
Thinking about welcoming a pet sitter into your home for the first time? Congratulations — your furry family members are in for a joyful, stress-free stay right where they belong: surrounded by familiar sights, sounds, and scents. And you’re in good hands: FurPetVo connects compassionate, experienced pet lovers with loving homes across the country.
It’s completely normal to have questions before your first sit — from how to choose the right sitter to what to leave behind (or not). To help ease the process, we’ve gathered answers to the most common questions FurPetVo members ask about house sitting etiquette. Let’s get you and your sitter off to a smooth, trusting start!
How do I politely decline applicants?
You’ll receive up to five sitter applications at a time — and while it can feel awkward to say no, thoughtful communication makes all the difference. Before declining, take a moment to read each applicant’s personalized message and profile carefully. Many sitters invest real time and care into their applications, hoping to connect with pets and homes they truly resonate with.
When you decide to move forward with another candidate, send a brief, warm message thanking them for their interest, acknowledging the effort they put into their application, and letting them know this opportunity isn’t the right fit. A kind, respectful note goes a long way in keeping our FurPetVo community supportive and positive.
Should I leave my sitter a welcome gift?
Leaving a welcome or thank-you gift is entirely optional — and never expected. Some pet parents enjoy offering a small token of appreciation (like local treats, a handwritten note, or a favorite toy for the sitter’s own pet), while others prefer to keep things simple. It really depends on your comfort level and the rapport you build with your sitter.
What matters most is clear, open communication — and mutual respect. If you do choose to offer something, make sure it reflects your values and feels authentic to your relationship.
Should I be tipping my sitter?
No — tipping is not expected or required on FurPetVo. Our platform is built on a trusted exchange: sitters provide loving, attentive care for your pets and home, and in return, they enjoy a safe, comfortable place to stay. There’s no monetary transaction involved.
That said, if your sitter truly went above and beyond — perhaps managing an unexpected medical situation or caring for multiple pets with special needs — and you’d like to express gratitude, a small, thoughtful gesture (like a local gift card or a heartfelt thank-you note) is always appreciated. Just remember: generosity should never feel obligatory. It’s your choice — and your call.
Do I need to have a video call with my sitter?
We strongly recommend scheduling a video call before confirming your sit. It’s the best way to get to know each other, clarify expectations, review daily routines, and walk through any important details — from feeding schedules to emergency contacts. A quick 15–20 minute call builds trust, eases nerves, and sets the tone for a confident, collaborative experience.
Should I leave food for my sitter?
You’re not expected to stock the fridge — but you’re welcome to if you’d like! Since dietary preferences and restrictions vary widely, it’s wise to chat with your sitter ahead of time about what they’d actually use. Ask what basics they’d appreciate (e.g., coffee, tea, oat milk, pantry staples) and confirm which kitchen items — like spices, oils, or grains — they’re comfortable using.
If you plan to leave little or no food behind, that’s perfectly fine too. Just be sure to clear out any perishables before departure and let your sitter know where the nearest grocery store or market is located.
Can I ask my sitter to contribute to utilities?
While it’s uncommon, some pet parents — especially those planning longer stays — choose to ask sitters to contribute toward utilities like electricity, water, or internet. If this applies to you, be transparent from the start: clearly state your expectation in your listing so applicants understand the arrangement upfront.
Once you’ve connected with a sitter, discuss the details openly and agree on a fair, reasonable amount *before* confirming the sit. Clarity and consent are key to maintaining trust and avoiding misunderstandings.
How do I prepare my sitter for my pets?
This is arguably the most important part of your prep — and the foundation of a successful sit. Be thorough, honest, and organized. Share everything your sitter needs to know: feeding times and portions, medication schedules, favorite toys or blankets, behavioral quirks, safe zones in the home, and emergency protocols (including vet contact info and nearby clinics).
Consider creating a simple “Pet Care Cheat Sheet” — a one-page document with bullet points, photos, or even short voice notes. The more clearly you communicate, the more confidently your sitter can step in — and the more relaxed your pets will feel.
