How to Include Pets in Your Engagement and Wedding

From facilitating meet-cutes to serving as your beloved third wheel, pets are an essential part of modern relationships. In fact, 79% of pet parents seek their pet’s approval before committing to a romantic partner—and 60% actively look for fellow pet lovers when dating. A remarkable 80% of partnered pet parents report feeling happiest when they’re together with both their person and their pet.

So when it’s time to take the next step—whether that’s popping the question or planning your wedding—it’s only natural your furry family member would be right there beside you, tail wagging or purr vibrating with excitement.

A joyful dog wearing a small bowtie, sitting beside a couple holding hands during an outdoor engagement photo shoot

Pro Tips for Including Pets in Your Engagement or Wedding

With thoughtful preparation, your pet can shine confidently—and comfortably—in your most important moments. Here’s how to set them up for success:

  • Know your pet’s personality. Some animals thrive in the spotlight, while others prefer quieter roles. Respect their temperament—participation should feel joyful, not stressful.
  • Choose pet-friendly locations. Confirm ahead of time that your proposal site or wedding venue welcomes animals—and ask about designated relief areas and indoor/outdoor access.
  • Assign a dedicated pet handler. Choose someone your pet trusts—a family member, close friend, or professional pet sitter—to accompany them throughout the day.
  • Bring treats, toys, and comfort items. These help keep your pet engaged during photos and reinforce positive associations with the experience.
  • Practice key moments. Simulate walking down the aisle with gentle distractions—soft music, background chatter, or familiar people—to help your pet acclimate to the energy of the big day.

Pet Products to Make Your Photos Pop

If your pet is joining your engagement session or wedding day, a few well-chosen accessories can add charm and cohesion to your visuals—without compromising their comfort.

  • FurPetVo Pet Wedding Announcement Chalkboard — customizable, rustic-style board perfect for announcing your engagement with flair
  • FurPetVo Ring Bearer Pillow Dog & Cat Costume — lightweight, adjustable design for pets who love to carry the rings (or just pose stylishly)
  • FurPetVo Formal Dog & Cat Tuxedo — sleek black ensemble with velcro closure for easy wear and all-day comfort
  • FurPetVo Formal Dog Wedding Dress — delicate, breathable fabric dress ideal for smaller dogs and photo-ready elegance
A cat wearing a tiny floral collar, sitting calmly beside a vintage-style wedding invitation on a wooden table

How to Include Pets in Your Wedding

According to a FurPetVo survey, 21% of married couples—1 in 5—have included their pets in their wedding celebrations. Whether front-and-center or thoughtfully woven into the details, your pet’s presence adds warmth, authenticity, and unforgettable personality.

Popular ways couples bring their pets into the celebration include:

  • Featuring them in “first look” photos—capturing genuine reactions as you share your joy
  • Including them on save-the-date cards or wedding invitations (think paw-print motifs or custom pet illustrations)
  • Designating them as ring bearers, flower pups, or even “best furriends” in the bridal party
  • Creating signature cocktails or mocktails named after your pet (“The Whisker Mule,” “Biscuit Bliss,” etc.)
  • Displaying framed photos or custom artwork of your pet at the reception—especially meaningful for pets who can’t attend in person

It’s no surprise so many couples want their pets involved in this milestone. After all, love isn’t just shared between two people—it’s built around the whole family, paws and all.

A golden retriever wearing a simple satin bow, standing beside a wedding arch decorated with greenery and white flowers

Congratulations on your engagement—and best wishes for a joyful, loving, and deeply personal wedding day. For more creative ideas tailored to dogs and cats, explore seven unforgettable ways to include your pet: from heartfelt “first look” moments to personalized ceremony touches—all curated by the FurPetVo team at furpetvo.com.